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It's a warm sunny day, AJ Goodlad looks into the camera smiling. Behind him are some bushes with yellow flowers.

He has blue eyes, greying blond hair, beard, silver chains around his neck & wears a blue denim shirt.

AJ Goodlad
Psychotherapist, Counsellor, Neurodivergent Coach

“The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”

Carl Rogers

ABOUT

ABOUT ME

Hi, thanks for landing here. I'm AJ Goodlad (he/him), an intersectional queer, neurodivergent Person-Centred Psychotherapist, Counsellor and Neurodivergent Coach.

I’ve had the privilege of being in the role of psychotherapist and counsellor for the past decade, bringing with me a rich background of supporting and advocating within disabled and neurodivergent communities and clients for 20+ years.

I have extensive experience in Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity Therapy (GSRDT) - you do not have to educate me in Queerness. I get it.

I meet with clients predominately Online (UK and Internationally). Online meetings are on 'Sessions' (Psychology Today platform) or Zoom, Telephone, or Therapeutic Email. There is some opportunity for face to face 'Walk and Talk' sessions on the South Downs in Spring and Summer months.

I am a member of the BACP (Advanced Practitioner), the ADHD and Neurodiversity Universal Coaching Alliance and the Association for Coaching.

I’m friendly, soft, warm and empathic, with a passion for client autonomy and empowerment.

Away from my private practice, my special interests include growing my own food, off grid living, aquascaping, long walks with my dog in nature and working out.

EDUCATION - SOME OF MY TRAINING

BA (hons) Person Centred Counselling (Middlesex University, BACP accredited)
Diploma in Person Centred Counselling (The Metanoia Institute, BACP accredited)
ADHD Coaching (Barrett Coaching and Training, duel accreditation: Association for Coaching & Universal Coaching Alliance)
Working Alongside Trans, Gender Diverse and Questioning People (Gendered Intelligence)
Understanding the Race, Culture and Anti-Discrimination Competence Framework (Counselling Tutor)
Foundation Certificate in Single Session Therapy (SST)
Defining Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity Therapy (GSRDT) (Pink Therapy)
Online and Telephone Counselling Foundation Course (Counselling Tutor. Quality Checked training recognition by the National Counselling Society (NCS)

SPECIALTIES

Anxiety
Stress
Depression
Trauma
Abuse
Neurodivergence (including later in life diagnosis/understanding)
LGBTQIA+
Gender
Relationships (including Poly, ENM)

FEES

Free 15 minute Therapy Introduction or Coaching Discovery call
30 minute Therapy & Counselling assessment (optional, not mandatory to work together): £30
Weekly or fortnightly Therapy & Counselling (self funded): Sliding Scale £70-80
Single Session Therapy (SST): £90
Coaching sessions (self funded): Sliding Scale £70-80
Limited consecution rates available £50. Please enquire.

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CONTACT

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AJ makes a heart shape with his hands. In the background is a tree with green moss. AJ has colourful floral tattoos on his wrist and silver rings on his fingers.